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No. 110 · Parenting

A game I built for my daughter

Line illustration: a child-size desk with a tablet leaning on a stack of picture books, and a glass jar of coins beside it.

I created a game for my daughter. She earns stickers for reading.

It works like this.

What she does

  1. 1

    Reads in English and Spanish

    English starts with short vowel words like cat and pig, then moves up through blends, sight words and vowel teams. Spanish starts with vowels, then syllables, then whole words.

  2. 2

    Does math

    Adding and taking away, from facts to 5 up to facts to 20, with objects on screen to count on the early ones.

  3. 3

    Gets it right twice

    A word or a fact counts as learned when she gets it right twice in a row. Most of a level learned earns a sticker.

  4. 4

    Fills the jar

    Every right answer drops a coin in a jar. A full jar opens a present, and the present is a new sticker.

  5. 5

    Decorates a room

    The stickers and a few things from the shop go on the walls and floor of her own rooms.

  6. 6

    Plays three small games

    A break between lessons, in English or in Spanish.

Why start with simple sounds

The game starts with short vowel words like cat and pig and builds up. Ontario's human rights commission, in its Right to Read inquiry, asked schools to teach explicit, systematic phonics and phonemic awareness, so children learn sounds in order. It also found that in 2018 to 2019, 26% of Grade 3 students in Ontario did not meet the provincial reading standard. The report says only about 5% would be expected to fall below grade level when instruction works.

Build one for one person

Pick one skill. Break it into small steps. Decide what counts as learned, like two right answers in a row. Pick one reward that the child can see grow, like a jar that fills. That is a game.

It also connects to an idea in Society front loads playing and back loads pressure: practice that feels like play.

Build one thing for one person.

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